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Re: Conjunctives, etc...

From:Dirk Elzinga <dirk.elzinga@...>
Date:Monday, May 14, 2007, 23:41
Chris:

On 5/14/07, Chris Weimer <christopher.m.weimer@...> wrote:

> Sorry, Dirk. I don't need it for myself. Perhaps I wasn't too clear. I'm > looking for an easy web reference, handy at that, that clarifies the use > of > conjunctives in all their possibilities. That Latin would be included > would > have been a plus, primarily because I know how to use them. And yes, an > afternoon at my university's library certainly can provide more > satisfactory > answers, but I figured why spend the whole afternoon in the library > searching for something which may already be available online. > > Someone pointed me towards Lojban, which I've yet to peruse, but I think > it > may have been what I was looking for as far as the handy explanations are > concerned.
Thank you for the apology. I'll leave it to Ray to judge if you were rude to him, but yes, a bit more context may have helped the original query. You might want to google "Martin Haspelmath" and "conjunction"--he wrote a chapter for a typology survey on conjunctions and edited a volume on conjunction in the world's languages. You might turn up something helpful.
> "And as for politeness, just because academics fling verbal poo at each > other in the journals and at conferences is no excuse to put up with > the same thing here, where the majority of list members are not > academics." > > I don't personally find my own response offensive. I mean, the guy was > giving me a layman's introduction to Latin conjunctions, which is nice, > but > I just didn't need it. I thanked him and said that I was sorry that he > provided something which I wasn't looking for. Not only that, but he > himself > didn't indicate in his post that I was somehow "rude", which later persons > > on this email list accused me of being, and him of agreeing to.
I was more dismayed by your later post's excusing rudeness as a part of scholarship--even if it was scholarship of a by-gone era. As I said, we are not all academics here, and those of us who are don't expect that kind of discourse on this list. And you are right; Ray has not said anything about being offended, so we had probably better leave it to him to judge. But there was a time on the list when we had several cranky people who did give offense--it eventually led to many people leaving. Perhaps feelings are still tender.
> How would you feel if you asked for a beer, and someone gave you an > O'Doules? I mean, that's mighty generous that they would offer you a > non-alcoholic beer, I'd politely turn it down. At least, it was polite to > me.
Well, as a Mormon, I wouldn't be likely to ask for a beer :-), but I understand what you're saying.
> What could I possibly have said to him if he offered me something which to > me was useless?
I have always taken an unhelpful reply to be a sign that my original query was not adequately framed. This of course assumes that the reply was meant to be helpful. So *I* may have simply rephrased the question. Dirk