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Re: CHAT: "Mister" (WAS: Re: New Lang: Igassik)

From:jesse stephen bangs <jaspax@...>
Date:Tuesday, October 24, 2000, 20:41
> Exactly - which would be really weird! > Similar to what The Gray Wizard said, > > "Stephen" = me > "Mr. Belsky" = my father > "Rabbi Belsky" = ¿¿¿??? > > So i can just anticipate it feeling at least somewhat disconcerting. > Something else which seems very strange to me is introducing yourself as > "(title) (lastname)" instead of "(firstname) (lastname)" - i can see > other people doing it, but i can't really see me doing it. > > Just to throw another title/name bit of information in here, for some > reason i have a strong aversion to "nameless honorifics" as i call them, > meaning the words "Sir" and "Ma'am". Other titles (such as "Mister", > "Mrs", "Doctor", "Rabbi", "Professor", etc.), even when used by > themselves (like "Professor, what's going to be on the midterm?") seem to > imply the name that goes along with them ("Professor Bailey"), so that > feels fine to me. But i can't stand it when other people call me "sir" > (telemarketers seem to like that) even if they're joking. And i don't > think i've ever used the words "sir" or "ma'am" in my life....they just > feel 'wrong'.
I don't mind being called "Sir" (although I would mind "ma'am" ;-) ), but when I was in Romania I was really freaked out when people insisted on calling me "dumneavoastra." I was okay with using the formal address, but I never expected others to use it on me! Even after I told them not to, most children younger than me insisted on calling me "dumneavoastrea." After a while I got used to it, though.
> > > -Stephen (Steg) > "mai hhazit, dedama didakh sumaq ttefei?" >
Jesse S. Bangs jaspax@u.washington.edu "It is of the new things that men tire--of fashions and proposals and improvements and change. It is the old things that startle and intoxicate. It is the old things that are young." -G.K. Chesterton _The Napoleon of Notting Hill_