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Re: CHAT: OT CHAT: Asperger's syndrome

From:Barry Garcia <barry_garcia@...>
Date:Friday, June 23, 2000, 4:44
CONLANG@LISTSERV.BROWN.EDU writes:
>Strangely, that's never bothered me. I've always had a tendency to be a >sort of passive observer, rather than active participant, in >conversations and the like. When I'm with two or more people, I tend to >be quiet and just listen to the other people talking, only rarely >speaking. I've often suspected that there's a social person hiding >underneath my shy exterior. :-)
It's usually as I'm going to the party i ger nervous. Once I get into the place, and meet everyone the nervousness subsides. Most of it is i dont know how they'll be, but i shouldn't be worried cause everyone i've met at parties is cool.
> > > >Ditto here. Heck, I have two or three personalities online, depending >on the person I'm chatting with, all of them quite distinct from my >real-world personality. :-)
My online persona is more what i'd be like if I was extremely outgoing. I dont lie to people online about myself (if I think they'd be a friend), so i'm basically the same way I am in real life, but less inhibited ;).
> > >> But, i can start up a >> conversation with a stranger if they seem pleasant > >I used to dread strangers coming up to me and trying to talk to me. I'd >try to get away from them, typically giving one-word or at least vague >answers to their questions and the like.
I used to dread it when i was a child, but now i dont mind. _________________________________________________________ This ain't a yes, this ain't a no, just do your thang, we'll see how it goes