Re: Kinship terminology
From: | Ajin-Kwai <wpii@...> |
Date: | Tuesday, September 12, 2000, 15:37 |
draqa kinship revolves around the mother:
kawi tribe/village member (most are related by blood in some way)
beas mother ; female ancestor
axba grandmother ; (also 'The Earth')
bo'o sibling (by same mother)
sawe mid-wife (person who helped birth you- chosen by mother during
pregnancy; male or female; could even be your blood father - but
you probably wouldn't know it)
batu immediate offspring ; (usually 'infant')
twi offspring (regardless of generation)
ewu mother's sibling -or- (female) sibling's child
owas grandmother's sibling -or- (female) sibling's grandchild
tiowa any relative not immediately (1st generation) descended from
or sibling to mother or grandmother ; (also members of other
races, including animals)
Except for 'beas', 'axba' and 'bo'o' these terms refer to relationships
rather than people. The basic draqa unit (there is no term for "family"),
is a mother and her children. One's siblings are one's most important
peer group. Siblings are raised together by their grandmother, but live
with their mothers; they are seen as "belonging" to the grandmother. When
a woman has children, she is built a home by her siblings. Males and
childless females usually remain in the mother's home until she passes on.
The head of the household then becomes the oldest remaining child. This
is how males usually become household-heads. Mothers are attributed a
high emotional significance and import, of course; but it is really the
Grandmother who "rules" a family. This produces an interesting and highly
fruitful inter-generational dynamic.
a beawan jin,
.yasmin.