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Re: CHAT: OT CHAT: Asperger's syndrome

From:Nik Taylor <fortytwo@...>
Date:Friday, June 23, 2000, 3:09
Barry Garcia wrote:
> I still get nervous > when going to parties for friends, when there's people I dont know that > are going to be there.
Strangely, that's never bothered me. I've always had a tendency to be a sort of passive observer, rather than active participant, in conversations and the like. When I'm with two or more people, I tend to be quiet and just listen to the other people talking, only rarely speaking. I've often suspected that there's a social person hiding underneath my shy exterior. :-)
> The shyness doesnt come through and the person i would be if I were not > shy shines through (people who have met me from chatrooms say i'm quieter > in real life, which is true).
Ditto here. Heck, I have two or three personalities online, depending on the person I'm chatting with, all of them quite distinct from my real-world personality. :-)
> But, i can start up a > conversation with a stranger if they seem pleasant
I used to dread strangers coming up to me and trying to talk to me. I'd try to get away from them, typically giving one-word or at least vague answers to their questions and the like. -- "If the stars should appear one night in a thousand years, how would men believe and adore, and preserve for many generations the remembrance of the city of God!" - Ralph Waldo Emerson "Glassín wafilái pigasyúv táv pifyániivav nadusakyáavav sussyáiyatantu wawailáv ku suslawayástantu ku usfunufilpyasváditanva wafpatilikániv wafluwáiv suttakíi wakinakatáli tiDikáufli!" - nLáf mÁldu nÍmasun ICQ: 18656696 AIM Screen-Name: NikTailor