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Re: The Forbidden Expariment

From:Mia Soderquist <tuozin@...>
Date:Wednesday, November 24, 1999, 17:55
"Alex C." wrote:
> > Well, many of you are perhaps bold conlangers lucky enought to have just > a conlanger as husband/wife. I admit I'd love to marry a conlang-freak
No such luck here. My husband is NOT a language person. We do, however, speak a rather non-standard version of English in our household, though. For instance, "food" is "the foodins". "to eat" is "to have the foodins". You don't take a bath, you have the baffins. We call our dog named Gandalf "The Gandalfins". My infant daughter usually wants "the nursins" before bed. And that is just for starters. It is a miracle my kids can speak English correctly at all.
> lady but I've never met one "in real life". I'm not married nor have > children but I guess some of you share your lives with conlang-loving > partners and have thought on the possibility of performing what I call > "the forbidden experiment". I know this sounds somewhat like "final > solution" or a Dr. Mengele experience but it's nothing to do with that. > In ancient times the forbidden experiment consisted in keeping a baby > away from human presence and see whether a sort of innate behaviours > arise. That is, when we speak about language, to see if the child starts > speaking a sort of non-taught language. The reason why this experiment > is regarded as forbidden is obvious. >
It seems from various bits of evidence that babies need to have some language exposure to start on the language journey. I can't see doing this to one of my kids though... I don't think I could, since my urge to talk to them constantly is really strong. It's a mommy thing. My kids make up words for things all the time. I think all kids do that, but I think that mine do it more because I do it, and I don't discourage them or treat them like I think it is a "cute little kid game".
> I have a new version of the FE (Forbidden Experiment). I wonder whether > any of you has thought about teaching his/her conlang to his/her baby > (apart from the national language, of course). I wonder if any of you > has decided to achieve a "different" family in this way. I can see my > son asking if he can go out with girls... in lojban!! (for example)
Lots of kids are raised with two languages, or in a minority-language only household, and most of them seem to get along pretty well. I don't think that it would be particularly different if the minority language was a conlang. I have thought about it, but I am not happy with my fluency in any one of my conlangs. -- Mia Soderquist (tuozin@dmv.com) clank clank *crash* clank clank *crash* (Two knights walk into a bar) http://www.crosswinds.net/~ratnow/ (Rat Now!) http://home.beseen.com/family/gerblette/ (Friends of Mia) http://www.geocities.com/Area51/Realm/9366/ (Toxxulia Travel) http://www.angelfire.com/de/siidmak/ (Mia's Conlang Page)