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Re: My girlfriend is a conlanger!

From:Jan van Steenbergen <ijzeren_jan@...>
Date:Friday, March 14, 2003, 14:58
 --- Daniel Andreasson skrzypszy:

> The story seems to be that she isn't a very active conlanger > and hasn't been for at least a year. She started out with a > conculture when she was about 13 and did some conlanging back > then. She then took it up in highschool. I think she gave up > the project when she felt it didn't lead anywhere. And she was > pretty alone in her endeavor. However, I'm hoping she will become > much more an active conlanger now that she knows about me and > the list.
Oh, that is very likely, especially if she joins the list. That's more or less what happened to me: before the second half of 2001 it was something I used to do only every once in a while, sometimes with breaks of many years.
> Then "Denica" perhaps. :)
Sounds nice. If pronounced [dEnitsa] it could be a Slavic language :) .
> Amusing story: [...]
LOL.
> > Should I call my next conlang "Mariniani"? > > What's your fiances name? Marina? Maria? Mariana?
Marina. Otherwise I would probably have written Mariani (in both cases :) ).
> The best thing about all this is that I can talk to > someone about conlanging. It is a rather big hobby > of mine, and not being able to share it with someone, > not even your girlfriend, is a bit sad. You know how > it is. "What are you doing?" "Oh, I'm just writing some > stuff". You wouldn't say "I'm creating a language and > I'm proud of it as well!" At least I wouldn't.)
Yeah, that's my situation :( . She can accept it as long as it doesn't swallow too much of my time, but she has never shown even the slightest trace of interest in it. That is a bit sad, indeed. When I was spending most of my time writing music, she didn't like that either, but at least she knew what I was doing, and why, and she liked (and performed!) the result. One of the reasons for my temporary switch to conlanging was the fact that conlanging is much less time-consuming and requires less isolation and concentration, but it hasn't really helped, I'm afraid. Jan ===== "Originality is the art of concealing your source." - Franklin P. Jones __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Everything you'll ever need on one web page from News and Sport to Email and Music Charts http://uk.my.yahoo.com